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At the time, when I was 33, I blamed her for this, thinking that if she liked me more, she’d make a greater effort. What I didn’t know then is that kids suck up every second of free time you’ve got, and that you have to work extra hard to create me-time, much less couple-time.
Ultimately, all I wanted from that single mom was to hook up, because that’s all I felt she could give me.
Even if I really take my time getting to know someone before we become intimate… Don’t hear from him for days, I assume it’s over…then a text with, “hey are you home tonight? Is it unreasonable that I am hoping someone could take me seriously or see my worth?
I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.
I’d try to spin it in a slightly more positive way, but I can’t.
As a screenwriter, I don’t know if you live in LA or not, but this is a town where people don’t grow up for a really long time.
She was smart, she was sexy, she was financially independent – and she had no time to give to me.
And if the greatest gift a woman can give a man is her time, who are men going to gravitate towards – the harried mom who has to manage four lunches, babysitters, soccer practice, and bedtime routines – or the one who is blissfully unencumbered by such essential responsibilities?
Put yourself in their shoes and it’s pretty easy to see.
I got married at 35 and had kids at 37 and 39 and I was ahead of most of my friends.
There’s no way that I – or most men who don’t have their shit together – would willingly enter into a relationship with a woman who has so many other responsibilities, the way all moms do.